They Don't Outnumber Us, Yet!

I'm still here...

2012-01-21T11:03:00.000-08:00

Winter Recap:
My grandmother turned 99 and is still a treat to visit with after church on Sunday mornings. I love that my kids know her so well. She is intelligent and well read. She asks fantastic questions about our lives, our interests and the world in which we live. She loves to discuss ideas, particularly those with which she may disagree because she views it as an opportunity to learn something new.

4 generations of women in my family celebrating Nany's 99th Birthday on December 1st.
*The youngest didn't want to smile so she pretended to be asleep!

Both kids had Christmas pageants at school.

We are spending many weekends setting up our new cabin in Central Oregon. It is a beautiful home away from home and we feel so blessed to be able to get away to spend some fun time with the kids.

Sunset on the Three Sisters - view from the cabin living room

Christmas was wonderful. Happy kids who are learning not just about Santa and presents, but also about the birth of baby Jesus.

Christmas Eve in front of the tree

I am trying to practice my skills as a multi-tasker and feeling I am a bit rusty. I volunteered to help with our school auction procurement team (no idea how much time that would take) as well as volunteered to plan our annual Cub Scout banquet in February. Needless to say, I am using every moment of spare time trying to do what I can with those two events. Add that to helping at B's school and acting as his Cub Scout Den Leader, taking G to gymnastics and play group each week. T is busy with work, but doing his best to spend time with the kids and squeeze in date nights with me.

Walking in a Sandy Wonderland

2011-12-06T08:31:00.001-08:00

For the first time in my life, I thought, "Let's Move HERE!" and I really meant it. We were blessed with the opportunity to spend Thanksgiving in Hawaii. It was warm and relaxing. I will be going back.

The view from our hotel lobby.

lei-making class graduates

Even rain and rainbows are beautiful in Hawaii.

We spent most of our down time playing in Kapalua Bay.

Luau Lovelies

More Luau Lovelies

Even a whale wanted to say, "Hello."

Pure Joy!

Island Princess.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Aloha!

Halloween, Again

2011-11-04T09:05:00.000-07:00

Halloween 2011

Our witch transformed into a princess.

Our ghost wasn't too spooky.

Happy Halloween!

G Turns Four!!

2011-11-03T07:15:00.001-07:00

ETA: I know a picture should be worth a thousand words, but I hit "Post" before I could add that we had a lovely time celebrating G's fourth birthday. We had a party with our favorite Rat. She got lots of new toys. (The accessories are going to kill me. Seriously, does a Ken doll really need sunglasses and a wallet or a My Little Pony really need 6 barrettes? But she loves them.) But I digress.

We are lucky to have a great celebration with friends, at school and then with several Halloween related celebrations through the weekend.

Our always sassy and never boring daughter turned four. She is beautiful, empathetic and not afraid to express her feelings. She loves dolls and animals as much as trucks and dinosaurs. She is friends to everyone, enemies to no one and has an infectious personality that draws people to her, both young and old. We feel blessed to be your parents. We thank God for you every day.

Look Out Fashion Week

2011-10-26T12:00:00.000-07:00

B and G were asked to model in a fashion show last weekend. I think it is more brilliant campaign to get parents and grandparents to buy clothing than anything else, but they had fun for sure.

Strutting their Stuff Down the Runway

G decides to play shy

They walked like old pros!

B declared it his first and last experience in runway modeling. G is still undecided. We ran into some familiar faces while there, which made it more fun, for sure.

Halloween Party Take 1

2011-10-25T13:23:00.000-07:00

I thought we had a few more years before we transitioned from cute costumes to scary ones, but I guess I was mistaken. Ok, they are very G-Rated scary, but scary, still.

Fright Night Begins

Cute Version of the Witch

Serious Ghost

7th Annual Play Group Halloween Party

Pumpkin Patch Take 2

2011-10-18T21:18:00.000-07:00

We spent some time last week with friends R&R at the Pumpkin Patch.

We took on the corn maze, rode on a hay ride and tried to find some smallish pumpkins.

No small pumpkins to be found - but a few smiles in the muddy field.

B is now too cool to pose for pictures the way he used to.

Oh well. I knew this day was coming.

I guess we'll see more poses like this in the future.

Evidence that they were together that day in the pumpkin patch.

Fall into October

2011-10-09T18:40:00.000-07:00

Pumpkin Patch

Soggy Jog-A-Thon

Hoops Fun

Courtside Entertainment

Play Group Adventures

Dropping off Daddy at the airport*

*it's blurry, but I love the love

WW-Blurry Splash Mountain Edition

2011-10-04T20:00:00.000-07:00

I may be smiling there, but moments later my favorite Donald Duck hat flew off my head, never to be seen again!

To Share or Not to Share

2011-09-24T08:28:00.000-07:00

The whole point of a blog is to share with the world the goings on in my life. I started out to document our journey to Ethiopia and to share photos of our cute kids. I have tried to keep my comments honest, but I do know that some items are too private to detail in front of the world. I don't want to be a blog that only shares how great my children are. In our house, there is yelling. We argue. We have stinky morning breath and end more than one day really needing a bath and a glass of Pinot. Do my kids always get along? Nope. Do I love them no matter what? Yes. Do I like them every day? Not always.

I used to write journals. I'd spend time as I fell asleep documenting my day, my thoughts, creative writing pieces, etc. Well, since I started blogging, I stopped writing in journals. That hasn't been too much of a problem, I think, until now.

This past week, I had a heated discussion with someone in my world. For privacy reasons, I won't share any part of it. I will share, however, that I felt trapped by the thoughts in my head. I am so used to writing either blog posts or status updates on Facebook to vent about the interactions in my life. However, because of the public nature of those places, I couldn't say a word, or wouldn't say a word. I don't think everyone exercises such restraint. I heard a story from a friend of a friend recently. At one point in her life, she found out she was having a baby. A surprise pregnancy, since her youngest was already in school. She wasn't sure how she felt about the whole thing, since she had hoped for a baby for the past 4 years and it never happened. Anyway, a friend of hers asked her why she was blue. (This friend happened to be struggling with infertility.) She asked if she was allowed to be totally honest and her friend said yes (knowing she was pregnant). Well, she explained that this joyous surprise had caught her off guard, etc. A little while later, friends husband POSTS ON FACEBOOK his disdain for his wife's friend who would be so callous. The baby is nearly two and they haven't spoken since that fateful discussion. Should she have vented to her friend who was struggling, maybe not. However, to blast her on FB seems cowardly to me.

Do I wish I could post about the words that were exchanged? Absolutely! It would be great to get a gut check on what happened to see what I could learn about the interaction, maybe do things differently next time. Do I know this is not the place for those thoughts? Of course.

So, if you are reading this, and wondering why things have been a bit quiet, just know lots of "stuff" is going on, it just isn't stuff I can share.

Welcome Fall

2011-09-24T08:02:00.000-07:00

Both kids appear to be settled into their new classrooms. B's school just opened a new K-8 building that is so spacious and beautiful, and right next door to G's new school. They also have a new Principal who is young and enthusiastic. His good vibes are contagious and that makes me so happy for my kids.

B's teacher, who happens to be a neighbor and friend, is just the right balance of gentle and strict. She has high expectations for the kids but understands that they are easily distracted little people. We have yet to see any tears at drop off, which makes me feel so good about his comfort level. They are working hard on reading, writing, spelling, math, drawing, social studies, science, and religion. His best buddy sits right behind him and his room is full of really great kids.

And this fabulous little lady...

G has begun attending the preschool on the same campus as B. In fact, the building is right next door. She tells me that she doesn't like it. She tells me that she wants to go back to her old school. However, after we walk B to class each morning, she sees a few of her friends from school. As soon as she sees them, she can't wait to race with them over to their classroom. She gives me a hug and a kiss and quickly says, "Goodbye, Mom!" when we get settled into her classroom. And every day when I pick her up, she has a huge smile on her face. It probably helps that she has told me she is in love with one of her classmates. His mom shared with me that he calls her his girlfriend. Their brothers are in the same first grade class, so we get to see lots of him. Her teacher shared with me that during their prayer circle one morning, one teacher asked everyone to pray for friends who are trying to adopt a baby from Ethiopia. All of a sudden, G's hand shoots up in the air. Her teacher calls on her and she says, "I was born in Ethiopia! I was born in Ethiopia!" It brought tears of joy to all of the teachers. Her joy is infectious.

Along with their new classrooms, we have also started new activities. B is playing Hot Shots basketball (coed, CYO 1st and 2nd graders). They have had 2 practices and their games begin today. I can't wait to see it. B and I also officially started Cub Scouts with our first Den meeting. We have 5 very enthusiastic little boys and their parents already off to a great start. G began taking gymnastics at a local gym. She thinks her coach is the coolest person on the planet.

I am having fun getting to know new families at school, learning about scouting and volunteering in B's classroom. For the first time in nearly 7 years, I get to spent some quality time doing "office work". Lots of copies, etc. I feel good knowing I can provide support for his teachers.

Ahhh, Vacation!

2011-09-05T22:20:00.000-07:00

Kids start school this week. 83 days of summer vacation vanished in a flash! We were so blessed to spend the last couple of weeks of summer enjoying the sunshine in Central Oregon. We rode bikes/scooters, golfed, played games, and hung out with family and friends. I tried to capture most of the highlights:

Board Games and Bed Head

Time in the pool

Golf (in miniature)

Wildlife viewing in the back yard

Crazy games in the front yard

Including direct-aim at the camera!

Lots of yummy food, including s'mores

FORE!

2011-08-16T22:53:00.001-07:00

Final camp of the summer: Golf Camp!

I was amazed at how much B has developed since last year. It was so nice to hear from the staff that B was not just a skilled player, but a polite kid, too.

He had this serious look on his face the entire time.

We played a few holes this past weekend as a family. He was so determined to make good shots that he would stop and count to ten as a way to calm himself before taking the shot. Pretty amazing self control for a 6 year old!!

July & August - Family Events

2011-08-16T22:14:00.000-07:00

Anyone who knows me knows that I have a bit of a sarcastic side. Hmm. I wonder where it comes from? Not my Mom's family, right? This is what my Mom and her siblings did when I asked them to pose for a photo with their mother.

Eventually they all decided to listen and act like adults.
Then spouses were asked to join the pose. (I intended to photo-shop in the missing uncle, but haven't had time.) I will spare you the silly photos. All I will say is that there was lots of lap-sitting and ear-tickling. Such juveniles!! Tee Hee.

This was the best we could do for getting the grandchildren and great grandchildren in the same room at the same time. We are missing two granddaughters and two grandsons-in-law. Not bad. (Are we the only family where when the kids eventually look somewhere near the camera, the adults are looking away??)

Doesn't everyone go get doughnuts from a world-famous doughnut shop dressed in their super hero capes? FYI - they weren't the only ones!

Reason #597 why I love this man: he is patient enough to try to teach his kids to fly a kite.

Did I mention that the kite has two handles and is difficult for adults to maneuver?
Didn't complain once when I requested a road trip to the beach in lieu of a trip to the golf course. Not. One. Negative. Word.

More cousin time. Big B has spent a few days with us this summer and the cousins squabble like siblings. Must mean they love one another.

The Past Month

2011-07-17T20:07:00.000-07:00

June and July have been a bit of a blur - just look at the photos as proof. I apologize for the shaky photography - most of these images were snapped either in haste OR by my phone so they aren't great. T had a trip (mostly work) planned for every week in June and the first week into July, so I have been a bit in survival mode. We've had lots of fun as the kids wrapped up their school year and we headed into summer mode.

In early June, B "Graduated" from Kindergarten. I have a hard time with this concept because, as a friend pointed out, graduation implies the ability to stop once you are done. I haven't heard of many kids saying, "OK. Kinder is over. I think I'll take the next 6 months off to find myself before moving on to first grade." Either way, the ceremony was ADORABLE! The teachers put lots of hard work into getting the 60 Kinders organized for their program and walk across the stage. There was a nice reception afterward as well.

B shakes hands with his wonderful teacher, Mrs. D.

B says goodbye to his teaching assistant, Mrs. P.

B gets a group hug from two of his favorite people, A with his big sister, L.

Now that B was done with Kindergarten, he was eligible to begin Cub Scouts as an incoming First Grader. I was so proud to watch him at his Tiger Cub induction!

Once he had his uniform ready, he was able to participate with his Pack at a local July 4th Parade. (Forgive the puffy face - we had to get up at the crack of dawn that morning.)

Though G would have preferred to participate in the parade, she was happy to join the mad dash for candy as a spectator with Daddy that day.

B rides the float (notice the very fun campsite theme of the float) and

tosses candy to G and Dad.

The float was so cleaver, they won 1st place in the youth division!

We spent the afternoon of the 4th riding bikes and trying to help B perfect riding without training wheels.

We've also had some time to hang out with the cousins.

G was excited to hold Cousin M, who joined the family in April when T's cousin gave birth.

Cousin A came for a visit, too!

B started attending some morning athletic summer camps.

The favorite so far has been rock climbing.

I'll keep taking photos and trying to find time to keep up.

Fairy Princess Ballet

2011-06-12T22:19:00.000-07:00

G just performed at her first dance recital this past weekend. I was delighted by the professional program and beautiful costumes designed by her dance instructor. I was also impressed by the 17 3-6 year old girls in G's class who (mostly) learned their routine in 8 weeks of 40 minute classes.

It is too early to tell if this will be the first of many dance recitals or the one and only, but I think it was a very entertaining way to spend a beautiful June night.

Happy Birthday, B! at OneTrueMedia.com

2011-05-31T23:16:00.001-07:00

I am a bit late in getting this together, but we've been a touch busy since the big day last month. It is long, but six years of photos deserves two songs. I hope it makes you smile like it does me.

Make an on-line slideshow at www.OneTrueMedia.com

Not Exactly Wordless Wednesday

2011-05-25T21:04:00.000-07:00

Busy Busy Busy

2011-05-23T21:07:00.000-07:00

Busy.

Soccer.

Mother's Day.

Work dinners.

Birthday parties.

Mother-Son bowling.

Doctors' appointments.

Summer vacation planning.

Trying to stay connected with my friends.

J working in the yard on our few sunshiny days.

T on the road or working so late it is like he's out of town.

His travel only gets worse in June with 4 trips in 5 weeks.

Preparing for recitals, graduations and general end-of-the-school year celebrating.

Not a single photo taken EXCEPT for the professional session for the kids which I will post later. Needless to say, out of 70 frames, only about 4 of G are usable, 3 include her brother. First time that has ever happened. My bad for making an afternoon appointment. My kids smile much brighter earlier in the day.

If this all didn't sound exciting enough, Sunday brought a burst water main just outside the house - about 4 feet below a very thick concrete sidewalk, surrounded by many utilities. Thankfully, I found the water pouring into the basement rather quickly. The water company had the main shut off fast, while the in-laws arrived quickly to watch kiddos and help with clean-up while the plumbers began to fix the issue. Lots of trucks outside our house for the next few days trying to return our property to normal. Grateful that the damage was so minimal.

London Calling

2011-05-04T16:21:00.000-07:00

T has an annual meeting in the UK each spring. With a late Easter and the Royal Wedding causing extra business holidays, his only chance to make the trip ended up falling over Easter weekend and B's 6th birthday. Rather than heading out and feeling guilty about missing the two important events, B and I got to tag along on T's trip.

Day 1 - Arrive in London and try to stay awake until bedtime.

We decided to head over to Harrod's for some snacks and toy shopping. The brisk walk in the sunshine kept us awake. The streets were bustling with holiday shoppers as people prepared for the Easter holiday. B wasn't excited about the crowds, but didn't seem to mind the break for Chocolate Fondue at the Chocolate Bar.

We settled into our hotel and got some sleep. The view wasn't half bad either.

London Eye, Big Ben, Westminster Abbey and Buckingham Palace

All visible from our window. As the wedding approached, the flag on top of Buckingham Palace

changed and colors on the buildings also changed.

Day 2 - Easter Sunday - Attempt to see Changing of Guard

We started the day with Easter Mass at a beautiful church just a few blocks from our hotel. The biggest difference we noticed was that the church was nearly empty about 10 minutes before Mass began, but was full within 1 minute of the scheduled start time (so it was like a typical Catholic Sunday Mass!).

We attempted to see the Changing of Guard at Buckingham, but since a large portion of Green Park was closed due to the media coverage of the Royal Wedding, we couldn't see anything but the crowd.

We saw some interesting characters as we crossed Green Park.

In an effort to see more of the city and stay awake, we boarded the Hop On/Hop Off tour bus near our hotel. Along the route we saw:

Westminster Abbey

St. Paul's Cathedral

Tower Bridge

As we waited for a bridge lift, our littlest traveler took a snooze on the bus.

Easter dinner was a very traditional one at HARD ROCK CAFE! :) Thanks to a heads up from cousin Amber, we asked for a tour of "The Vault". We were escorted downstairs and got to see several photos, guitars and other memorabilia. Unfortunately, the $50 million Jimi Hendrix guitar was out on tour.

Day 3 - Tower of London /London Eye

We continued our Hop On/Hop Off tour that allowed for a River Thames cruise. We took the tube over to Westminster, gawked at the thousands lined up for a glimpse inside Westminster Abbey, opted instead to visit the gift shop before those thousands finished their Abbey Tour and headed in for some trinkets.

T & B with Big Ben

The London Eye

Tower Bridge, from the water

Tower of London

Yeoman Warder (who prefer not to be called Beefeaters)

Raven

Guarding the Jewel House

Kate Middleton look alike doing press for CBS.

After we finished walking around Tower of London, we headed back toward Westminster and rode The London Eye. Since we were blessed with such beautiful weather, it was great way to see the entire city. The lines were long but the wait was relatively short. B was pretty excited about the fact that it doesn't stop moving - each car is unloaded and loaded while the Eye is still in motion.

The big structure in the middle of the photo is Buckingham Palace, as seen from the Eye.

Day 4 - B Turns Six!!

T had to head west for his meeting, so B and I had a few days to play in London on our own. After reading lots of info about the city, B chose the London Transport Museum as his first stop on his birthday. I call it "6 year old boy heaven". There were lots of trains, buses and buttons to push, as well as video game simulators for driving buses and trains, not to mention, a game that took the littlest visitors all around the museum collecting different shaped hole-punch stamps in their game card.

Playing with a display of Tube trains over the decades

Birthday ice cream at Harrod's.

Playing in Green Park (between our hotel and Buckingham Palace).

Day 5 - London Zoo

We took a relatively long Tube ride coupled with a lengthly walk to the London Zoo at Regents Park. I enjoyed the less-crowded, more neighborhood-like atmosphere. We even walked past Whole Foods.

Leaf cutter ants - the ropes between the glass cages for NOT enclosed.

If an ant wants to go rogue, they are free to do so.

The proximity of this kid's head to the ants still makes me nervous.

Notice the warning signs...

This animal bites, too, if he gets really hungry! ;)

We ended the day at Paddington Station meeting T's train from Hereford. B had a great time watching the arrivals screen as well as watching all of the trains and commuters enter and exit the station.

Day 6 - Diana, Princess of Wales Memorial Park at Kensington Garden

I wish we had stumbled upon this park earlier in the week. It was huge and each section had enough vegetation surrounding it that you felt like you were in a totally different world. We only had a couple minutes to explore before we had to head to the airport.

We took several trips on the Tube, which meant a little walk from our hotel to one of two nearby tube stations. B's favorite included a walking through a maze of pedestrian subways. It felt fitting to snap our last few photos of these two heading back to the hotel.

The taxi ride to the airport was a bit annoying as there were so many rode closures in preparation for the wedding the following morning. The driver even stopped to fill the gas tank, despite our rapidly approaching departure time. (Even left the meter running!) Thankfully, the airport felt empty and our flights were uneventful.

We Partied with Chuck E (Again)

2011-05-03T16:10:00.000-07:00

Before heading out of town over Easter weekend, we celebrated B's 6th birthday with a few of his friends from school. He loves arcade games right now, especially the kind that spit out tickets and allow you to purchase prizes, so we headed back to Chuck E. Cheese.

This photo was actually a case of mistaken camera settings, but it fit the feeling of the day - crazy chaos all around with a big smiling boy smack dab in the middle of it all.

G Love

2011-05-02T15:53:00.000-07:00

Three can be challenging.

Three can be creative.

Three can be fabulous.

T's parents got the joy of spending 7 days with just G while T and I took B with us on a quick trip to London. She had times of great joy and times of great...angst.

Three is such a crazy age. She is so full of love and cuddles one minute, followed quickly by a tantrum for some crazy reason (my recent favorite was the fact that May 1 was NOT Christmas morning) followed by a song and dance routine. Most of her struggles seem to stem from the fact that she can't have whatever she wants EXACTLY when she wants it. Then there are those days, oh those days, when she will ask for something and we'll say yes and she still throws a fit because...well, I am not sure why she is throwing a fit. I think it feels so insane right now because she is the youngest and as her brother learns patience and reasoning, her lack of both seems so extreme.

For now, I will soak up the cuddles when they come, try to stay patient when she isn't and try not to get worked up when it isn't Christmas morning on May 1.

Beautiful Beautiful Beautiful Boy

2011-04-22T16:54:00.000-07:00

Can't believe he is about to turn six.

Forever Family Day - 3 Years

2011-04-10T23:25:00.000-07:00

Just a quick look back - three years ago they met for the first time.

He was excited to be a big brother.

In no time, she warmed up to the idea.

This year, we celebrated with a night at a nearby water park - hotel.

They only posed for this photo when threatened.

Most of the other photos look like this:

We had fun. We had family time. That is what counts, right?

Many Faces of B

2011-04-06T06:04:00.000-07:00

Mr. Science

One of only 2 Kindergardeners to display

an independent project at the science fair.

Future MLS Forward

Working on a break away at his first 3v3 micro soccer game.

Boy Band Member

He reluctantly let me snap a picture with his

buddy B at a recent dress-up* birthday party.

*His shirt reads "this is my dress shirt"

Comedic Actor/Class Clown

The two "Bs" danced for the ladies as everyone waited for dessert.

36 Months

2011-04-05T17:49:00.000-07:00

Just 36 months ago, T and I boarded a plane to Africa. Waiting for us was a beautiful and tiny bundle of love.

We met an amazing group of folks with very similar families (lots of 3 year old sons in our group). We were forever changed by the country. The people. The love.

It hasn't always been easy since we made that first flight to Africa. In fact, our flight out of Africa was well...tough. (Still really sorry about the gift G shared all over the shoes of one of our travel group Dads.) I am so thankful that this group of families has been so open to sharing their journey via their blogs since we live pretty far from most of the group. You can check in with them here. Or here. Or here. Or here. In fact, there are only a couple of families who I don't hear about via blogging or facebook. Of everyone else, we are the ONLY family who hasn't adopted again. But frankly, this little bundle of joy made our family complete.*

* that and it didn't take long to understand the nannies' suggestion that we give her whatever she wants when she cries. She could pierce ear drums with those lungs and still tries from time to time.

WW - Cousin Crazy Love

2011-03-30T00:01:00.000-07:00

World Water Day - Update

2011-03-22T20:22:00.000-07:00

We did it!!!

Go bloggers! Go friends!

Over $11,000 raised + $10,000 match = CLEAN WATER, Healthy Children, Empowered People.

If everyone does a little, we can all do a lot.

World Water Day

2011-03-22T00:01:00.000-07:00

Water.

I have babbled about it before (forgive the pun). I will again.

If you read my blog, you know I like to stand on my soap box from time to time.

Recently, the blog world led me to some like-minded women. They decided that rather then just talk from their soap boxes, they wanted to act. To change the world. They created a non-profit organization called The Adventure Project. It was established to increase investments in positive social enterprises around the world. They believe we can end extreme poverty in our lifetime by reinventing how we give. Ways that spur economic opportunity, promote dignity, and save lives.

One of the reasons that I think this non-profit is so cool is that they are looking for new projects to invest in each quarter. That means, four times each year they help roll out a new life-changing plan in a different corner of the world. So far, they sold coal at Christmas and now they want to "Keep it Clean" by selling soap. Not only are they sending funds, but they are trying to make a lasting impact. Training workers. Creating Jobs.

Their current focus is on training well mechanics in India. Why?

Because, 1/3 of all drinking water wells built in the last 20 years are broken.

Over 4,000 children die every day from lack of clean drinking water.

Instead of drilling more wells, they are using their charitable gifts to train and employ hand pump mechanics. The mechanics earn an income, bringing themselves out of poverty and they save lives - turning water back on for thousands of people each year.

Today, they have a plan. A goal. A proposal. Raise $10,000 USD in one day. Today.

If we raise $10,000, we will help mechanics fix hundreds of wells for years to come, turning water back on for 300 people each month.

I am not looking for $10,000. Or $1,000. Or $100. Just $10. That's it. $10.

Just got word that there is a matching opportunity, so $10,000 can become $20,000.

Go HERE to help with this life-changing movement.

Let Spring Break Begin

2011-03-19T12:13:00.000-07:00

Ballet - Oh Goodness

2011-03-14T18:36:00.000-07:00

G had her final day of her ballet class today, so parents got to come in and observe.

Since her favorite part is running, I think her ballet career will be short lived, it is still pretty fun to watch. The class is for 3-6 year olds, so there is quite a range in skill and size.

Where have we been?

2011-03-13T23:05:00.000-07:00

I haven't been feeling creative this past month, so I apologize for the lack of posts.

Much of what would be blogging time has been spent supervising B's work on his science project. It isn't a complicated project, however, when you type one letter at a time, getting all of the information ready to print on a display board can be a bit time consuming. Even though I tried to keep his input time to about 20 minutes every few days, it did take a bit of teeth pulling to get him to finish it. Thankfully, it is done.

Here's a photo that sums up G in a nutshell - 3 going on 25!

It wouldn't be a typical day if she hasn't:

1. Thrown herself on the floor for a good old fashioned tantrum

2. Answered a question with an exaggerated, "Yehhhhh - esssss"

3. Told me how much she is mad at me or is unhappy in general

4. Picked a fight with her brother

5. Given me (and her brother and Daddy) several unsolicited "I love you!"s

Such is the world of the bi-polar toddler.

Give us an inch...

2011-02-24T11:58:00.000-08:00

We got a snow day - but only about an inch of snow. The roads were slippery, so I appreciate the fact I didn't have to navigate our way to school. However, Mother Nature didn't deliver enough of the white stuff for us to really go sledding. B decided to improvise and boy it worked! They shot off the end of the slide faster than ever. It was great.

My life in Facebook Updates:

2011-02-23T09:45:00.000-08:00

Not a fan of being stuck at home. Less a fan of having sick kids. Why, oh why, do they seem to only have sick days on the two days per week when I schedule appointments for me (like a haircut, coffee with a friend, etc.)? G last week. B this week. Now the threat of a snow day tomorrow. Yikes.

Thank goodness for clean water and grocery delivery services.

Note to self - when having groceries delivered, make sure you understand quantity so that you get 3 lbs of nectarines, not just 3 nectarines. You get 2 small heads of cauliflower, not 4 large heads of cauliflower. You get 2 packages of top ramen not 12!!!

Best not to think negative thoughts while chopping veggies or your finger my end up a casualty. Ouch!

when you cut yourf infex finger, typing can be a chanllenge.

Ben, "Mom, what do I smell? Are you cooking Kale?"

Jeanelle, "Nope. I am roasting cauliflower."

Ben, "Yippee! I love cauliflower."

Proud and happy mama for sure!

Wishful Thinking

2011-02-18T08:40:00.000-08:00

We've had a few days of snow showers and Miss G really wants to catch a few of the flakes on her tongue. Unfortunately, the flakes were not cooperating.

Happiest Birthday Wishes (a day late).

2011-02-10T06:34:00.001-08:00

The incredible man, whom I get the honor and privilege to call my husband, celebrated his birthday yesterday. He wasn't excited about getting a year older. However, I know that his attitude isn't aging even if the calendar disagrees. He is the funniest man I know, who is quick to tell a joke but never at the expense of another person. His willingness and true desire to spend to time with our children makes me happy every day. He is a very hard working man who is respected by both his staff as well as his supervisors. He is also a great son to his parents. He makes an effort to spend time alone with me as well, especially when work, family and parenting make it harder to prioritize.

I love you babe. More today than yesterday and not as much as tomorrow! Happy Birthday!

Thank You

2011-01-17T19:09:00.000-08:00

Thank you, Dr. King. Your efforts make our life possible.

Dance Class - Love it or Hate it?

2011-01-13T09:37:00.000-08:00

G's fall dance class was cute and she said she liked it, but it was her first class where they want parents to stay out. On the last day, we got to watch from the side of the room. She was a bit bipolar that day...

Happy Girl

Not so happy girl

Loving it

Not so much.

This oscillating continued the entire time. I think she didn't like the choice in music or she wanted to do different things, or she was showing off for me. Not sure. Either way, this pretty much sums up our daily interaction with the Gorgeous Miss G!

WW - Gingerbread House Fun

2011-01-12T09:35:00.000-08:00

"Is this a good time?"

2011-01-09T08:13:00.000-08:00

Those are best words you want to hear from your social worker when you are waiting for an adoption referral. It means they have very important news and want your full attention. For anyone who has waited (and waited and waited and waited), this is the phrase that makes your heart stop, then start racing. This is when all your basic abilities cease. This is when, for the life of you, you can't remember how to dial a 3-way call on your phone (despite practicing for months and months). You can't find that beautiful notebook you set by the phone to write down all of the important information. Instead, you grab a crayon and the back of an envelope and start to scribble.

Our social worker was very patient and explained that she'd be sending an email with all of the data we were discussing, so we could just listen. Better yet, she was sending a photo - a photo of the little lovely who would forever change our family.

3 years ago, on the morning of January 9, we got, "THE CALL". A beautiful and tiny bundle of joy, not even 3 months old, was waiting for us in Ethiopia. We had a DAUGHTER. B had a sister. We were now a family of four.

~10 weeks

1 year

2 years3 years

WW - Cousin Photo Shoot

2011-01-05T08:56:00.001-08:00

Matchy Matchy Twins

2011-01-01T05:43:00.000-08:00

I love that my kids are very close in age to their cousins. I love my cousins dearly, but those who I saw more often were so much younger that I still have to remind myself that they are cousins, not nieces and nephews. When we were preparing for Cousin A to bring her parents to visit in December, G helped pick out an outfit so the girls could be "Matchy Matchy Twins". They even added the Princess Shoes to complete the look.

Pajama Day

2010-12-31T05:36:00.000-08:00

Though B attends a K-8 school, they still get a few perks as Kinders. One of those perks is that they get to wear actual costumes on Halloween AND Pajamas on the last day before Christmas break. He loved it. Even the teachers dressed in their warm PJs and robes.

School Play

2010-12-30T04:59:00.000-08:00

One of the perks of going to Catholic school is that when they have a program in December, they get to call it a Christmas Program. Not only do they get to sing songs about Santa and Christmas, but they also get to sing about shepherds, angels AND baby Jesus! Reminds me of public school when I was a little kid!

My folks, T's folks and Nany were on hand with T & me to see B's class perform their version of the Christmas story. They sang and danced (a bit). There were costumes (mostly just headdresses) and a few kids had lines to memorize. I tried to get some good shots of the group, but since I am a bit height challenged, mostly I got lots of audience back shots and bit of the kids showing behind them. Believe me, it was a hoot. They sang a verse from SO MANY SONGS! Sister Denise, the school music teacher, gets a big thumbs up for teaching 28 kinders so many songs in under 6 weeks (meeting just about 60 minutes per week).

B was part of the shepherd contingent.

Cuddled up with his teacher, Mrs. Davis.

Posing with Mom and Dad

Unfortunately, once T's head wasn't cut off, B's smiles turned all "Chandler Bing"

Twirl Test

2010-12-29T06:15:00.000-08:00

G got a new dress for her birthday, but we never had a reason for her to wear it. She did, however, wear it for Thanksgiving. In fact, she tried out the twirling in the living room. Then she showed off the twirling in the aisles at church, too!

How do you know you've taken too many photos of your little princess?

2010-12-28T05:45:00.000-08:00

When she starts posing like this without any prompting!

Disney Character Overload!

2010-12-27T05:09:00.000-08:00

I could break this down into several posts-o-cuteness, but I am over 5 weeks late in getting these to the blog so I thought I'd just give you most of the Disney Character photos in one big post. B is definitely more into rides than getting character photos and autographs these days, so G is in more photos. But I did manage to get him to smile a real smile with a few the characters during our stay. I must admit, I felt a little sad when he whispered to me one day, "Do you want to know the biggest secret at Disneyland? There are people inside those costumes!" Maybe that is why they lost their luster for his this year. That or he really just loves roller coasters!

Where did December go??

2010-12-26T14:52:00.000-08:00

Sorry for the radio silence. I had high hopes of getting so many thing accomplished early this year. Christmas cards were going to be mailed just after Thanksgiving. (Ha!) All gifts were not only going to be purchased by wrapped before the 15th. (Ha Ha!) Blog was going to be organized and all of those important year end thoughts and photos were going to be uploaded. (Ha Ha Ha!)

Then reality set in. T was gone for a week, which isn't unusual, but does make those precious evening hours after the kids go to bed a bit more precious. Throw in a head cold that WON'T GO AWAY. Add Christmas programs, school volunteering, play dates, family photos sessions, family celebrations and a lovely little stomach bug that hit me the night of the 23rd and is still lingering...(I am not sure if it is food related or viral, but I stayed away from just about everyone in case it was contagious). T proved once again to be superman. Woke up on the 24th asking what needed to be done. Did it all. Brought me saltines and sprite. Kept the kids entertained and away from me for long periods of time. Got everyone to Christmas Eve Mass, including Nany. Made dinner and celebrated Christmas with his parents. Left a note for Santa - with cookies and eggnog and carrots for the reindeer. (T wanted to leave a glass of Bailey's but B wouldn't allow it since Santa was driving the sleigh and it's not OK to drink and drive.) Got kids tucked into bed (in matching PJs too!). Prepared the house for Santa's arrival.

Go Ducks!

2010-11-27T08:07:00.001-08:00

Can't visit the Happiest Place on Earth without a hug from my FAVORITE character...Donald Duck!

11 - 0 - I LOVE MY DUCKS!!

Happy Thanksgiving!

2010-11-25T22:58:00.001-08:00

Today I am thankful for many things, including wonderful kindergarten art projects!

Lego Land

2010-11-24T08:37:00.000-08:00

Our first major excursion when we arrived in sunny southern California was a trip to Lego Land. GREAT place for anyone with little kids. Big kids can enjoy the rides, too, but this place was designed with little ones in mind.

Yes folks, that is a lego replica of Mt. Rushmore. We also saw the Taj Mahal, Vegas Strip, New York City, Sydney Opera House, elephants, dinosaurs, etc. I know several adults who would LOVE to work there.

This may be my favorite restroom sign of all times. No better illustration, especially with a newly potty trained family member!

The Place Formerly Known as the Happiest Place on Earth

2010-11-23T08:22:00.000-08:00

We had a great vacation. Seriously. However, the magic of years past has been altered a bit. I will post all of the happy faces and great poses later, but I wanted to keep it real. Our week started with a bit of the grumps. We saw much more of this face than in years past.

Someone forgot that you must be patient when waiting in line for rides.

Or when waiting in line to see favorite characters.

Or waiting for food to be served.

Or waiting for grown-ups to put on swim suits to go to the pool. (No photos of that, thank goodness!)

Or that LOOOONG wait (maybe 2 minutes) while a ride operator checks all the riders so a ride can start.

Rough life. A week at Disneyland with his parents and both sets of grandparents. Our annual family trip may be altered a bit next year. (T and I had some serious discussions about going w/o the kids next year.)

Bad Apples

2010-11-18T13:27:00.000-08:00

I love Halloween. I love choosing a costume, helping the kids, decorating, carving pumpkins. This year, I thought it would be funny if T dressed a bit outside of his comfort zone. He drew the line at black nail polish.

Once I knew he was in, I couldn't resist joining in on the fun.

We are trying to look hard core. Hard to do with the kids laughing at us in the other part of the room. Did it work?

We walked the neighborhood with the kids. Sadly, a few neighbors didn't quite notice that we were in costume. I blame it on our cute chaperones!

Carnival Fun

2010-11-15T13:05:00.000-08:00

B's school had a Halloween Carnival at the end of October. One of the games with the longest line was the "Cash Machine" only they weren't giving out cash, but "Free Dress Coupons". Since they wear uniforms to his school, it is a very big deal to earn these coupons.

We even got a video of G taking a turn. I am not sure if the princess helped or hurt her endeavor, but it was entertaining either way.

All We Need is

2010-11-12T12:57:00.000-08:00

LOVE!

Fabulous G

2010-11-08T08:24:00.001-08:00

B & G were treated to some time with Chuck the Rat (better know as Chuck E. Cheese) a few days ago. (Add this to the list of 100+ reasons we love Annie the Super Nanny - her willingness to take these two to CEC on a Friday night by herself and thinks it is a fun way to pass the time.)

At the end of their time, the kids were "buying" prizes with their game tickets. G was taking lots of time trying to make a decision and a line was forming behind her. As Annie urged her to make a choice, G turned to Annie and said, "But I need to find something FABULOUS!"

Fancy B

2010-11-08T08:10:00.000-08:00

A few days ago, B & G were arguing in the back of the car about which movie they were going to watch for Friday Night Movie night. Every suggestion he made, she shot down. Every suggestion she made, he shot down.

Suddenly, B shouts, "G. Let's compromise!"

She gets quiet. He continues.

"Let's watch what I want."

She likes the compromise idea. "OK."

At first, I thought he was being very clever. Well, I then remembered a new favorite book in this house.

Fancy Nancy Splediferous Christmas.

"But my dad says we must comprise. That means we end up with the tree my mom wants."

Since this is one of my favorite lessons in the book, I have mentioned it a time or two (or twenty, but who is counting?). I guess he really is paying attention.

The Bike

2010-11-04T13:36:00.000-07:00

G has been BEGGING for a big kid bike ever since she hoped on her brother's bike this summer. I knew back then that she would be getting one from her aunt, uncle and cousin on her birthday. The big reveal brought huge smiles all around.

Birthday Fun

2010-11-03T13:00:00.000-07:00

What better way to celebrate a birthday than with four of G's favorite people?

Halloween Sweetness!

2010-10-30T22:23:00.000-07:00

Today is the Day

2010-10-28T16:00:00.000-07:00

Our baby is THREE today. (Some were a bit confused when I posted my last post a bit early. I was going for better early than never.) So far, we have celebrated with a play group party and muffins at school. We are going to have a whirlwind of a weekend celebrating both G's big day and Halloween. Since my birthday normally falls during spring break, I have always enjoyed an extended birthday celebration and hope she does too.

She lights up any room she enters. She is funny, loving, empathetic, intelligent and independent. We thank God every day that she came into our world. I can't help but think of those who gave up so much, who made a very selfless decision, a very difficult decision, a life-altering decision three years ago. We pray every night for the special people in Ethiopia.

On a lighter note, this past week, many of my friends posted on their blogs about both a Sesame Street video and 9 year old Willow Smith's video about brown girls loving their beautiful brown hair. We have been watching the videos often, complete with singing, hip shaking and head whipping. So have the kids...(ha ha...just seeing if you are paying attention.)

Thanks to my friend, Katie, over at Happy Girl Hair for posting a bit about them. She also put up another link to an article on NPR. Check out this NPR post. You can see the videos in both spots.

G turns Three! at OneTrueMedia.com

2010-10-22T23:39:00.001-07:00

Make video montages at www.OneTrueMedia.com

Not as Relaxing

2010-10-05T21:03:00.001-07:00

We are still working on a transition into new normal. G loves her new school but decided not to nap today. The four hours between pick up and bedtime were less than pleasant. Not sure if you can see it, but this is the "door" to her room. No door visible? That is due to the fact I removed it from the hinges after she slammed it (again) shortly after being warned that the next time she threw anything or slammed a door, the object would be removed.

I was naive enough to assume it would be another ten years before we got to that point.

P.S. I totally forgot that T would be gone on a business trip this week. Ooops. B cried for the first time at drop off on Monday morning because his teacher made some adjustments to the seating arrangements at school and even though his last table-mates were driving him crazy, he didn't want to deal with any kind of change. G was sad a drop off today (a first for her). Major Mama guilt - though my gut says it was a bit for show. Finally, our dish washer broke so until we get a new one, I get to be the dish washer. (Did I mention that T is out of town so I am solo while dealing with all of this loveliness?)

Beautiful Day

2010-10-05T20:57:00.001-07:00

I was blessed with the opportunity to spend the weekend with three Moms from our play group. We traveled to Bend and enjoyed the beautiful sunshine. Activities included a great hike, shopping, eating, drinking and lots of talking. Ahhhhh.

New Normal

2010-09-28T12:18:00.000-07:00

I haven't posted for a bit because I am still working on making our New Normal less 'new' and much more 'normal'. B seems to be settling into his routine. I am still walking him all the way into his classroom rather than dropping him off at the door or the curb. Compared to the WEEKS of tantrums at drop off last year, I am happy to walk him to the room. Today was my first day volunteering with his class. He didn't like it when I left, but seemed to enjoy having me around today. I am thankful for that while it lasts.

G is spending her first day at a new school. I wasn't happy with her other option this fall. Unorganized is the best way to describe it. Nothing WRONG just didn't feel RIGHT. Had to follow my Mama instinct and go elsewhere. I called a couple of hours in and they said she is doing great. We'll see if she sleeps or eats...

T is working crazy hours. I hope this isn't a permanent part of our New Normal. I know he feels the same way. He was able to get away to celebrate a night away for our Anniversary. That was a well-needed break that we both enjoyed.

I will try not to stay away too long. For now, I'll keep working on this routine.

Pleasantly Surprised

2010-09-10T23:22:00.000-07:00

I am happy to report that both kids enjoyed their first week of school at their new schools. B was very brave and shed NOT A TEAR at any point during school his first week. I was actually a bit torn up during his first day because I dropped him off and left with little to do to help him settle into his classroom. I was a nervous wreck. He kept a stiff upper lip and enjoyed the day. When I got him a couple of hours later he said, "It felt like 10 minutes, Mom!" I am sad to not know EXACTLY how he is spending his day, but am trying my best to listen for the very fun tidbits. Like the fact he attended an all school assembly on day 2. He was most interested in the fact that they all had to go to the bathroom before the assembly because his teachers were going to be introduced to the whole school, so they couldn't leave to help with potty breaks. Yesterday, he had a beautiful epiphany in the car on the way home when he declared, "I didn't think about you today, Mom. (sounds harsh, but it gets better) I figured out that if I think about you, I get sad. But if I just think about Kindergarten, then I am happy, because it is so much fun!" I then explained that he is better than many adults who haven't figured out that fact just yet. Finally, I was proud to learn that he earned a special recognition in class today for being a good helper (the first one awarded for the year).

G is adjusting well, too. She has been dry at school for both days with no accidents, including nap time. She isn't eating much at school, but this doesn't surprise me. I was surprised to learn that she slept for a bit on day 2 during quiet time. She needs the nap, for sure, but isn't one to go to sleep easily in a new place. We, however, need to work on our plans at home while B is in school. She told me that she was, "Going to the office, Mom."

I am still waiting for a big meltdown of some sort, but I won't tell the kids that. I will admit that they were promised new scooters if they were happy all week. I decided by Thursday afternoon that they had MORE than earned those rewards, then spent about 3 hours trying to assemble the darn things. Turns out one had some kind of problem, so we exchanged it today and had it assembled in about 30 minutes!

Needless to say, I am so proud of my kiddos. It has been a very nice Mama week. Oh, and I am excited because T and I get some R&R this weekend to celebrate 7 years of marital bliss!

Family Fun

2010-09-06T08:37:00.000-07:00

I am trying to get all the missed summer posts done before all the craziness of the new school year begins tomorrow.

We gathered in August with my Mom's family-including the family matriarch (loving referred to as Nany), her four children and their spouses, many of the grandchildren and 3 of 4 great grandchildren.

Please note, we are in no way endorsing drinking and operating heavy machinery, but a gals gotta do what a gals gotta do!

All Good Things Must Come to an End

2010-09-01T06:43:00.000-07:00

End of an Era. For the last 5 years, B and I have met weekly with the Mom/play group that I joined just a couple of months after B was born. We started meeting in our homes and when we got brave we started taking field trips. Most families added a sibling or two along the way. G joined the party when she arrived home and joined the increasing number of siblings. We celebrated births, birthdays, holidays. We said good bye to dear friends as circumstances changed and our group got smaller. Last week, we met at a local amusement park for our last day time meeting with the big group. As the big kids will start Kindergarten next week, we are shifting to monthly evening gatherings. This group of families has been the single most important addition to our lives besides our kids themselves. Thanks, Ladies (and Gentlemen) for helping us survive these crazy toddler years!

Munchkins Amok

2010-09-01T06:30:00.000-07:00

Out little munchkin finished her summer sports class. She learned to play soccer, basketball, tennis, tee ball, floor hockey but if you ask her, she learned how to play Sharks and Minnows.

Cousin Craziness

2010-08-31T11:40:00.000-07:00

Last weekend, B, G and I went to visit Cousin A and her parents. It was loud and crazy but the kids had a blast. Auntie Doc even got to remove B's stitches. I'd make a sarcastic remark about her old lady glasses but that wouldn't be nice. ;-)!

It was only a matter of time...

2010-08-23T23:54:00.000-07:00

We had our first kid-related ER trip yesterday. B & G were playing while T & I cleaned up in the kitchen after dinner. Then we hear the blood curdling screams from B. T got there first and says, "Oh, no." I take a quick look and run for towels to sop up the blood. We do a quick assessment and get into the car. Apparently, the bed frame jumped up and took a chunk out of B's forehead. That or he tripped and fell into it. Either way, deep gash = stitches.

I've attached photos. Warning - there is blood. Worst one is toward the end and I will warn you again...

Seriously, the kid was so calm.

We all decided to joke around while he got it cleaned.

Yes, he's laughing during the cleaning.

All sewn up and still smiling.

WARNING - GROSS PHOTO COMING. STOP NOW IF YOU DON'T LIKE BLOOD (OR DEEP GASHES TO THE FOREHEAD).

BEFORE

AFTER

Adorable...(I am not biased or anything)

2010-08-19T07:04:00.000-07:00

We were helping celebrate Little L's 2nd Birthday. She was so cute telling all of us that she is now "Twoooooo". Photo credit goes to her amazing Mama. Thanks, K, for sharing these photos.

Nothing Says Summer Like A Little Tee Ball

2010-08-17T14:21:00.000-07:00

I spent much of my summers growing up hanging out around ball parks. My sisters and I all played softball and my Dad was a coach, manager and an umpire (still likes to umpire). There were practices (2 or so each week) as well as games (2+ each week). Before I was old enough to play on a team (we had to be 8 to start WAY back then), I would attend my sisters' games and practices and typically played with the other siblings who also were too young to play.

Well, I wasn't quite ready to invest that much time in one activity for B, so I got very excited when I found out that our local parks and rec center has a tee ball program for kids ages 4-6. It lasts 5 weeks. 1 hour per week. 30 minutes of practice, then 30 minutes of scrimmage. Now that is a perfect amount of tee ball. 5 hours. TOTAL. B loved it. We thought it was adorable to watch. G loved playing with the other siblings on the nearby playground. I hope B thinks of his tee ball time as fondly as I remember mine.

Strawberry Season

2010-08-12T21:03:00.001-07:00

Strawberry ponies
Strawberry lambs
Dancing in meadows
Of strawberry jam*

Happy Teeth

2010-08-10T13:41:00.001-07:00

Here are B & G smiling away at their dental appointment this morning. They love both the Dentist and her office staff. Helps that there are movies playing above their heads, a space ship that takes their dental x-rays and prizes for good behavior. Also helps that they can snuggle together in the chair if it makes them happy, which it does.

Family Vacation - Water Addition

2010-08-03T07:49:00.000-07:00

These photos are a month old. I have been a major blog slacker. My apologies. We took the kids to a local water park/hotel for the 4th of July. Neither of them like fireworks and our local weather was still pretty cold and wet, so the idea of a constant 84 degree water park experience was very appealing. The kids LOVED it. T and I didn't hate it. I think we'll plan to go back once G is potty trained and B is tall enough to enjoy the largest water slides. The area for the little tikes was very entertaining - with their own slides and pretend jet skis.

Invasion of the Body Snatchers

2010-07-31T22:01:00.000-07:00

Those of you who know us well know that yard work is not high on our list of priorities. We have a service who cares for the yard and other than talking with them a few times per year, that about covers it. Our yard apathy is so great that we literally turned in our yard debris barrel several years ago because we never used it. Ever.

Well, this summer, we were both motivated to get our hands dirty and do some landscaping for a small corner of our yard. Not sure why. (Others seem to think we are ill or have been taken over by aliens of some kind.) Either way, we had a small area in the back yard that used to be grass surrounded by a bed of roses. Well, the deer who wander through the yard eat the roses and we killed off the grass when the play structure went in two years ago. So, we've had a patch of dirt with some sticks in it just waiting for us. At the beginning of the summer, it was surrounded by a rock wall in back, as well as LOTS of wild strawberry and ferns.

I worked for more hours that I expected necessary to remove the dying roses, wild strawberries and cut back the ferns. We then met with a local nursery that offers free landscape design services.

They gave us drawings and some direction.

T's folks came and helped. His Mom watched the kids while his Dad dug most of the holes for planting.

Voila!

And that is how I spent my summer vacation!

Summer Toes

2010-07-26T20:20:00.001-07:00

When the baby sitter mentioned that B was jealous when G got to have clear polish on her toes last week, I explained that he can have whatever color he wants on his toe nails. Any guesses what color he chose?

Happy Independence Day!

2010-07-05T22:34:00.001-07:00

Yes, we wore the matching t-shirts in pubic. No one said a word to me, but apparently, T was able to "blame his wife" when others made comments to him. Oh well. I thought it was cute.

And since we haven't seen the sun shine in months, you can tell our eyes couldn't handle the bright light and we all look squinty for the pictures.

A New Grin

2010-07-04T12:57:00.000-07:00

B lost his first tooth yesterday while munching on blueberries at a BBQ. Seemed rather all American to lose it this weekend. Maybe because it makes me think of my childhood. Regardless, his smile is a little roomier today.

Princess G

2010-07-01T23:39:00.001-07:00

Last weekend I had the pleasure of escorting G to a Princess Extravaganza at the local rec center. Please note that her outfit represents 3 separate Princesses: Sleeping Beauty, Cinderella & Princess Tiana.

Summer Sports

2010-07-01T23:36:00.000-07:00

B finished his 3-day golf camp today. He really enjoyed it and learned a few things, too.

He also started t-ball tonight. With his first at bat, he sent the ball several feet past his opponents. He took off running for first, but got confused. Instead of stopping at the base, he kept on running - chasing the ball. It was ADORABLE (and if family legends are true, much like his father when he played little league a few years ago.)

My mom has always said that a great cure for a bad day is to go watch a t-ball game. She might just be on to something...

It's Easier With Your Eyes Open

2010-06-25T00:00:00.000-07:00

This spring, B took a Tiny Tots Tennis lesson on Saturday mornings. He was so adorable and really enjoyed it. It appears, however, that his eyes are closed nearly every time the ball is near him.

New Poses

2010-06-24T07:56:00.000-07:00

Both of my children have spent a lot of time getting their photo taken. They are pretty good about indulging their camera-happy mom. G, however, has a new technique for getting me to stop snapping.

Instead of this beautiful pose...

We get this one.

I will admit to you (but not her) that it works. Tongue comes out, camera goes away.

Another gem on the new learned behavior front, yesterday, we were sitting enjoying a treat. Little Miss Sunshine turns to me and says, "Can we please go play before we go home, Mommy? Pleeeeeeeease? (Insert FLUTTERING EYELASHES HERE!!!!!)"

OH YES SHE DID. Three times. I laughed, scoffed and looked at her with what had to have been a combination of surprise, joy, and annoyance. I thought, "Where did you learn this trick? Does it work for you with someone else? Is this cute or really disturbing or both?"

Best Ever Daddy

2010-06-23T08:01:00.000-07:00

I hope that Father's Day is not the only time that T (and Grandpa and Boppa) feel celebrated. We are so blessed to have such engaged men in our lives.

I knew when I married T that he was a loving, caring, selfless, supportive, intelligent, patient man. I knew all of these qualities were great qualities to have in a father. I didn't really "get" it until B was born. His birth caught us both so off guard and T handled it with such grace. He was so frightened. So worried. But all I saw was my very calm husband. When G came along, it wasn't frightening in the same way, but frightening for other reasons. Travel to a third world country with just a few weeks notice. Changing the dynamic from 1 to 2 children - probably the most frightening aspect from the perspective of an only child. And once again, a very calm T stood by my side as we celebrated this new little life. He supports our family in so many ways. Through work. While at play. Even his hobbies. I never doubt his priorities. And neither do our kids.

I love you!! Thanks for being such a wonderful father to our children. In the wonderful words of G, you are the, "Best Ever Daddy!"

Lots of Bull

2010-06-23T07:36:00.001-07:00

T is in Texas for the week having a very serious business planning meeting...or is he?

Such a bad blogger

2010-06-22T07:28:00.000-07:00

Or maybe I should say, Non-blogger. For anyone still out there, sorry for the silence. Got the camera out a few days ago and found pictures from nearly a month ago. Pictures that I intended to post just after they were snapped.

I have no excuse besides general lack of motivation. I have help with the kiddos. No major projects going on. Trying to keep myself from gaining back the 30 lbs I lost. Hardest part for me is that when I fall off the "good eating" wagon, it takes a few weeks before I see a real gain (more than 1-2 lbs) so I feel like I have a license to eat ANYTHING. A few weeks of that and BAM! Here come the pounds again. Doesn't help that I had stitches in my leg from a mole removal that included instructions of no strenuous exercise until they were removed (2 weeks!) and I am taking a medication that makes me feel sick whenever my stomach is empty. So, I am back on plan and going to make a serious dent. No fun when my new clothes start to feel a bit snug.

In other news, I just returned to reading "Love & Logic" because all of our togetherness is causing a bit of tension between Mama and the cubs. Lots of yelling from ALL of us. Not my idea of a good time. I love my little ones and I hate it when we are arguing. Hate it more when I lose my cool, especially when I am trying to keep a calm tone. Who is the adult? Sometimes having intelligent children who could argue a case in front of the Supreme Court makes parenting a bit more challenging. I will say that when a young child was crying at the park on Saturday afternoon and G started singing, "You can't always get what you want..." T and I were very proud. The offending girl and her Dad were out of earshot and most people wouldn't be able to tell what she was singing because it came out more like, "Can't get what want...can't get want..." but we knew what she meant and figured we must be saying/singing that a bit these days.

Yes, I am rambling. When I get my act together I will get photos up. No promises while T is out of town and the sitter is off most of the week, but I will do my best.

Wordless Wednesday - Look Who Dresses Herself Now

2010-06-16T23:37:00.000-07:00

Ahhhhh

2010-06-05T19:11:00.001-07:00

70 degrees. 7 pm. Post dinner walk at the nature park. Summer finally
showed up in our neck of the woods, if only temporarily.

Wuv, Twue Wuv

2010-06-04T09:58:00.000-07:00

As heard at the dinner table last night while the nanny was with them...

B, "Annie, I've been thinking. I don't think you should marry Cord (nanny's boyfriend)."

A, "Really, why not?"

B, "I can think of a few people who are better."

A, "Who?"

B, "Well, me. I think you should marry me."

A, "I think you might be a little bit young for me, Buddy."

B, "Yeah. I guess you'd have to wait a long time. OK. You can marry Cord, I guess."

A, "How about I still get to give you a hug and kiss before bed each night? Would that be OK?"

B, "OK. I guess that will be OK."

Funny, since none of us have been talking about Annie getting married. None of us know why he brought it up on his own, other than he was just being lead by his beautiful heart!

When T and I got home, we chatted with him about it and explained that she'd be 38 by the time he is 23 and has graduated from college (which is the current minimum requirement in our house for marriage). He decided that since that is older than MOMMY, maybe she'd be too old.

Cha-Cha-Cha-Changes

2010-05-21T16:19:00.001-07:00

Next week is the last week of school for both kiddos. We decided we are going to take the summer off from formal school, especially since B will be starting Full-Day Kindergarten in September. I also decided to withdraw G from her gymnastics class for the summer. I am not sure who will have more trouble with our less structured schedule, me or the kids. Then again, they won't be sitting around watching TV all summer. Super Annie will be joining us several times a week and we've signed up for a few fun events (Safety Town, t-ball, golf camp, Munchkins Sports). I hope the summer will bring lots of time outside in our yard, the local parks, play dates with dear friends and some quality time with grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins.

I don't think these two will mind the "break" at all!

Keeping it Real

2010-05-20T08:39:00.000-07:00

Yes. I love to brag about my beautiful kids. They are both photogenic (when they feel like cooperating). This isn't always the case. Now, we get to be very picky with our photos because we get lots of gems (as illustrated by the new header and border photos I added today). But I thought it would be fun to "show off" those that didn't make the cut.

How does my string-bean of a boy look so chubby??

Photographer wanted them to go in circles. Didn't work.

Most honest expression of the entire session, but not sure I wanted to pay to memorialize the attitude I get to deal with too often these days.

We did order this one...

Last photo...WE ARE DONE, MOM!!!

Matching Dresses

2010-05-18T19:01:00.000-07:00

Yes, they match. Yes, this indulgent parent took the kids to Build-a-
Bear just because. Do I feel bad about it? Nope. Not today.

P.S. She picked the name, "Meow Meow Kitty." Didn't want anyone to think we refer to a cat as a "meow meow".

As heard in the car today....

2010-05-15T19:49:00.001-07:00

G said, "I want goldfish (crackers)!"

Mom said, "What is missing from that statement?"

G replied, "Crying?"

Sent from my iPhone

It's Time

2010-05-14T15:32:00.001-07:00

...for a big bed. This is during nap AFTER I removed 3 large books
from under her legs. No matter how much I take out of her bed, as soon
as I leave the room, she fills it up again.

As heard on the golf course on Sunday...

2010-05-10T10:19:00.001-07:00

B teed off and made contact. The ball bounced then dribbled off the
tee box and into the long grass about 1 yard away.

T says, "OK Buddy. Go get your ball."

B responds, "Do I need to use my ball mark, Dad?"

T says with a huge smile on his face, "Nope. Not this time. Maybe when
we get to the green."

Mother's Day Golf Day

2010-05-10T10:15:00.000-07:00

Go Fly A Kite

2010-05-08T00:01:00.000-07:00

We spent a few days with Cousin A and her parents last week. The kids were great - first time we've flown just the three of us. It's a short flight, but I was a bit nervous. They carried their own wheely bags and sat quietly in their seats (thanks to a little iPhone entertainment). We actually ran into friends at the airport who were on our flight - very small world. Nice to spend an hour catching up.

We joined A at her gymnastics class. All of them had a blast.

The little princesses had fun wearing matching night gowns after their bath.

Not to be left out, B got into the photo session too.

We spent some time at the local Discovery Center. Both B and I enjoyed the bed of nails.

The kids spent some time in the windy sunshine on A's new play structure.

Windy days allowed for a little kite flying before we left for the airport.

Last but not least, Foster Puppy, Juno, enjoyed the kite flying, too.

They are watching Juno while her family is spending time in the NICU with their 28 week baby. Always good to pay it forward.

Sick Mama Rant

2010-05-07T22:42:00.000-07:00

I am not a fan of the word "HATE". I try to avoid it. However, I think when it comes to the flu, HATE is appropriate. I HATE THE FLU. I HATE FEELING THIS WAY. I hate feeling like I've been hit by a truck. I hate feeling pain in every hair follicle on my body. I hate not being able to take care of my family. I hate caring for my sick kids wondering when and if I will get it, too, because this year, I have gotten sick each and every time they have had a stomach virus. I hate that my hands are raw from washing them about 20 times per hour. I am frustrated that both kids missed an entire week of school, especially when they have less than one month left for this year. I am frustrated that I have not had a chance to work out all week when I am intended to run a 5K in 2 weeks. I am frustrated that we are going to miss a great auction tomorrow because I haven't left the house in a week and don't think I should infect a room full of charitable people. We have friends who have been working hard for Ethiopian Orphan Relief and we are going to miss the big night.

Enough complaining...

I am so thankful that we have family members who live close and who can help care for the kids when I am too sick to get out of bed. I am thankful that we have great doctors, clean water, electrolyte solution and other goodies that keep us hydrated and out of the hospital. (It is not lost on me that this type of flu could literally kill us if we lived in a under developed country.) I am thankful that I have a spouse who puts everything on hold (even when that seems impossible) to watch the kids, run errands or bring me a pint of Ben & Jerry's (now that my appetite is back). I am thankful that I have the energy to turn on the computer (that I have a computer to turn on and internet at my house, too) and complain via this blog about my crummy week.

All in the Family

2010-05-07T01:11:00.000-07:00

After B's bowling party, we returned to our house to open up presents with cousin B. I wish I had video taped the process because cousin B provided the most hilarious color commentary.

"Open the card first Do you need help What did you get Legos Wow, those are really cool Are you ready for the next one Don't forget the card What is it Oh, Bakugan I Love Bakugan Those are great Can we play with some of your new toys These are awesome."